just something He put in my head. im pretty far off from achieving that level
of love but  we learn as we go on ;) currently playing :  "Wish You Were" &
"Manhattan from the  Sky" by Kate Voegele. loooveeee her voice. ps: here's a 
little something something i found. thought it might be interesting. 

"We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us.But if you’ve been
through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person,
just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong
 in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some  comple-
mentary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness.
And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your
unsolvable problems the ones that make you truly who you are - that we're
 ready to finda lifelong mate. only then do you finally know what you're
looking for. You're looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong
person : the right wrong person - someone you lovingly gaze upong and
think, " This is the problem I want to have.” 

–Galway Kinnell