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" I think the scariest thing about being (or trying to be) yourself (without the facades)is the risk. Supposing that facades act like a shield. Should you not be accepted as this 
one personality, you simply swap it with another. The risk of being real. The risk of 
not being accepted for the you you truly are. That state of vulnerability. "

stumbled upon from Esther Goh's blog some time ago.